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Attached The New Science Of Adult Attachment

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Last Updated: 18 January 2022

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People tend TO think of attachment and bonding as subjects child psychology, but in fact, these factors are just as important TO ADULT health and happiness. So what defines healthy ADULT relationship Is there such thing as too clingy or dependent? And can people change in order TO lasting LOVE? With studies showing again and again that our relationships are critical TO our long-term mental and physical health, researchers increasingly turning their attention TO nature OF ADULT connections. In their new book attach: New SCIENCE OF ADULT Attachment and How it Can Help You Find and Keep LOVE, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine and co-author Rachel Heller explore topic. And just in time for Valentine's Day, they offer new perspective on how TO find right partner. There are three major attachment ANXIOUS, AVOIDANT and SECURE. Around 20 percentage people are anxiously attach. ANXIOUS people TO be close; they LOVE TO be intimate. They are very preoccupied with and very sensitive to small cues of threat in relationship. Let's say their IS going TO airport. It anxiety provoking for relationship. They would start TO worry if they didnt FROM their partner soon. It almost like they have very sensitive alarm system. About 25 percentage OF are AVOIDANT. AVOIDANT people want TO be in relationships they are all program TO get attached TO other people, but something strange happens when they get close TO person. They are uncomfortable too much closeness. They keep their partners at arms length and constantly try negotiate intimacy and closeness. They see it as something that with their independence. They make up 54 percentage majority, OF population. Securely attached people are warm and loving and LOVE TO be close, but they have sensitive alarm system. They do get preoccupied with relationships, they mind things so much. They have for being in relationships. If theyre going TO airport and youre ANXIOUS, they will call you before you think about calling them. Avoidant Person Would Hit Ignore And Think, Oh, She Calling Again, And You End Up Yelling At Each Other. You can see kind of different life you would have with someone SECURE. You actually have way TO go about finding right person. Theres also or ANXIOUS / AVOIDANT. That is much more rare. When children have this, IS linked TO trauma. Therapists often tell people that you cant be LOVE until you are able TO LOVE yourself, and suggest that people take time to work on themselves before getting into relationship. But theres no data TO support that, and in fact, research shows that you need TO be LOVE you can LOVE. Why do we this cultural misunderstanding about relationships? Because there is kernel OF truth TO it, but that is one OF reasons we write this book.

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